I think the relisation that no matter what we do and how messed up our lives become that we're not unique and just a cookie cutter of a million other people is a crushing relief. So why do we still put our selves out like no one understands us? or that the grass is greener on the other side, to the point where we believe theres nothing green on ourside at all. are we selfish or just greedy? is there a difference? oh well. its a question not worth answering anyway.